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Wednesday, November 21, 2012

Good Intentions

An overwhelming majority of Canadians believe that they should do estate planning - make a will, get life insurance, appoint guardians for minor children, discuss their wishes with their doctor. Most don't, though.*

Why is that?

I think because it's hard enough to contemplate dying, never mind actually sitting down and putting in place A Plan for the horrible event. I have every intention of living a long and productive life, thank you very much.

Culture plays a factor, too. Chinese Canadians following Confucianism, Buddhism or Taoism believe it’s unwise to make predictions about one’s future health when not currently facing health issues. South Asian Canadians following Islam, Hinduism, or Sikhism typically view terminal illness as “God’s wish”. To discuss death is seen as drawing it nearer. First Nations believe truth-telling is dangerous to health – many prefer not to have major illnesses diagnosed.

Doing some end of life planning may not decrease feeling anxious about dying – in fact, it may increase it. However, planning may decrease your loved ones' anxiety - and give you some sense of control over the process.

What's your plan?


*80% believe they should start planning for end of life when healthy. 80% do not have an end of life plan. 70% have not prepared a living will. 44% have discussed end-of-life plans with their family. Source: Royal Society of Canada Expert Panel: End of Life Decision Making, November 2011 

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